Lázár Gergely - A párod nem a pszichológusod

How big a task is it to change our routines and our personalities? On a sentence that "accidentally" slips out? How much are we driven by selfish thoughts when we offer help? Or when we sacrifice everything for the other? And is it really always the other person's fault?
For a successful relationship to work, it is important to realize that our doubts, disappointments, and pains are not the sole responsibility of our partner. Just as it is not a solution to treat our partner as if he were our psychologist (or that certain "garbage bin") whose sole purpose in life should be our well-being and prosperity. The most important task is therefore to learn how to handle the various relationship situations that come before us, and when it is worth visiting a specialist with our love problems. Your partner, not your psychologist, will help you with these.
When reading this highly entertaining book, we will wander through the tangled mirror labyrinth of relationships, and sometimes we can easily recognize ourselves or our partner in these mirrors. (Any correspondence with reality is, of course, only the work of Life with a capital letter.) If someone wants to know more about the depths of human relationships, about the "chemistry" that works and doesn't work, maybe he has decided that he wants to do more for his partner, then you are in the best place. As well as those who would like to peek behind the psychologist's curtain and wonder how a professional sees us in his everyday life. The heroes of this book didn't specifically think that they had any task for the success of their relationship, but they got to the point where they couldn't do it alone. And many times this realization can be the certain big step that can help you to the next one.