"It is better that you choose than that they choose you!" - this is what the American dating guru encourages his female readers. According to Birger, it is time to acknowledge that romantic patterns have been disappearing in recent years, and it is up to women to develop new habits.

Internet dating sites and mobile applications have changed the dynamics of the birth of relationships, there are more educated, independent women on the dating market than similar men, and since the #MeToo movement, the latter have become completely unsure about how they can approach a woman in a way that cannot be misinterpreted. so then they often don't dare approach at all.

There is nothing left, women must take the first step! Why not? After all, female members of the Y and Z generations are aware of what - and who - they want in all areas of life. They do well in school and often end up in leading positions at work, so why shouldn't they behave with similar boldness in love? Why should they wait with folded hands for the right one to find them?

The author offers new, brave strategies for dating, entertainingly and convincingly combining scientific research results with stories from real life. He gives specific advice on how to behave in various situations, how to avoid the pitfalls of online dating, and why we should date someone we know instead of strangers. The book is an essential handbook for all women who want to look for (and find) a partner in a different way than they have done so far, but don't know how to go about it.