F. Várkonyi Zsuzsa - Már 100x megmondtam - Életműsorozat 2. kötet

"I've already told you a hundred times..." is said every day in many, many families. I wonder why we try the "solution" again and again even if it is obviously useless?

To understand this, the many experiences, which are slowly being built into a system from the observations of psychologists working in different parts of the world, help. From these, we know that our communications can have an important background message: they hide intentions, emotions, and emotions, and this is precisely perceived by the other party - even a small child. However, he also reacts in such veiled form until he receives instructions in words - and not about what he needs to do, but about the feelings and needs of the other person.

According to the psychologist's experience, every sane person with a healthy personality can be taught to recognize and articulate their own emotions, which have not yet been acknowledged. The author wishes to provide practical help for this by presenting many important results of communication research, transaction analysis and social psychology.