"You laugh at the main character, then in the end it turns out that you were laughing at yourself. :) "
Angelika R. Kelényi, successful author, mother

"Cheerful and full of life. I loved it. A must-read for mothers. :) "
Anne L. Green, bestselling author, mother

"I love that we can finally talk honestly about the beauty and downside of motherhood!"
Viktória Baráth, successful author, mother

You have the right to survive!

Do all your children get out of bed at the first word and go to school smiling after a quick dressing and breakfast? Is their vocabulary varied and do they always have a kind word for everyone? Do you start every day with perfect sets, and for dinner you eat six-course meals?

If the answer is yes, this is NOT your book!

If, on the other hand, you feel that getting ready in the morning is equivalent to Stephen King's Torture, if your child only knows "I want" instead of "thank you", and you are trying to control a huge household chaos: then this book was written exactly for you.

This book has set itself the goal of presenting the bumpy road of becoming a mother through spiritual processes. In the meantime, it provides you with really relevant and useful tricks and advice on how to take care of your baby, and describes some possible implementation methods for how to survive the first year as a mother, both mentally and physically, while staying true to yourself.

The author, lawyer Eszter Mirjam Spira, works at the Metropolitan Court and is preparing to become a judge. She is currently on maternity leave with her twin babies, who have just entered toddlerhood. He also has an 11-year-old teenage son who knows everything better than his parents and is unconvincing. And there's his 8-year-old, skinny daughter, who pops in at nine o'clock on a Sunday night to say that she doesn't know how to subtract two numbers from each other. Since the birth of her children, she has been listening to other people's criticisms and unsolicited advice - this is what motivated her to report her own experiences.