John C. Parkin - f..k it - B...a meg! - Az real spirituális road

We humans sometimes think that our lives are completely worthless and wonder what the point of it all is. We look for things that might be important to us, we become attached to them, and then life takes them away from us. And that can hurt a lot. Then again we wonder what the point of it all is. Then we look for new things that can matter, then we start to get attached to them too, but life takes them away from us as well. And it hurts like hell, too. But we keep looking...

The only problem with this is that most of the time we worry about things that - if we were able to observe them from a distance of three steps, we would realize that - they are not important at all. And we spend so much time and energy on these things that we simply don't have time and energy left for the really important things.

We worry about being late for an appointment, but we don't go to school for our child. We have problems with the little things in our pockets, but we don't realize how much our fellow human beings living on the street are lacking. We look for gods and miss the wonder of life. Our past buries us, our future worries us, and we miss our present.

That's why sometimes we have to say b...a meg! For everything that really doesn't matter. In this way, tension, stress and binding are replaced by release and freedom. And we can finally pay attention to all the things that really matter.
This is the basis of B...me-therapy.