How do our parents' conscious and unconscious expectations shape our personality and life path? How does the commanding power of the book of fate apply in our everyday lives? Why do we engage in psychological games that bring us only disappointment, defeat, and humiliation over and over again? What can be behind the compulsion to perform, the control mania, the tyrannical behavior or even the over-accommodating behavior, the inability to say no? Why does someone run away from intimacy? How does a family always reproduce success or failure? Why does someone repeatedly choose an alcoholic or abusive partner when they want to avoid this type of person?
One of the most popular psychologists in our country, Zsuzsa F. Várkonyi, talked to Gergő Bódy more than two hundred times for six years in Klubrádió's Kontakt program. This volume, which contains the material of thirty-six conversations, deals with the fundamental question of how our childhood experiences shape our adult lives and relationships, and what options we have if we want to change bad habits.