Eva-Maria Zurhorst - Szeresd önmagad and mindegy kivel élsz

The author of one of the biggest German book successes of the recent period fundamentally shakes our views on our relationships. With his provocative but optimistic statements, he encourages us to give up our previous behavior patterns. In our modern society, our days are defined by shopping, consumption and the throwing away of unnecessary objects. Unfortunately, this attitude has left its mark on our relationships as well: Things that don't fit need to be replaced immediately - in some cases, our partner as well. An increasing number of marriages end in divorce, and it is considered completely natural for someone to appear before the registrar twice or more.
Everyone wants to get the best, and this often comes with the illusion that it can happen without effort. We want to achieve our goals as easily and as quickly as possible, and if our relationship does not work as we would like, we look for a new partner. It is a false illusion to trust that everything will be different with the next partner - without changing ourselves.
If we have enough courage to radically change our way of thinking, we will most likely realize that our partner is not the cause of our problems. We have a lot of work to do exactly where we feel the greatest pain, hatred, injury, coldness, numbness or dislike. And we have to do this work on ourselves so that our marriage or relationship becomes a scene of real healing and love.